No one can escape the human condition.
To get angry at one’s self after a futile attempt is, therefore, illogical.
If there is no escape, what can be done?

Seeing human limitation clearly, understanding it, accepting it,
peacefully working with challenges to minimize their impact;
this is a way towards inner peace.

Clarity is needed, but clarity cannot be forced.
Doing won’t help; striving may hurt.
Allowing. Being. Noticing.

Embrace the power of nothing.